If you have an existing relationship where you’re disconnected from your partner – or you’re just starting out in a relationship and are already experiencing problems – you don’t need to know how to do everything, but you DO need to know the principles so that you can be masters of your relationship and avoid the pitfalls.

Have you hit a plateau in your marriage or relationship and now you're just 'housemates' and can’t seem to get past it. You're frustrated. Maybe you don't have sex anymore and you don’t know how or what to do to get started on relationship-building activities to regain the emotional and physical intimacy you shared when you first got together. Time to change all that before it's too late!

What sort of ‘Mate’ are you in your relationship? When you've done my Intimacy Quadrant Relationship Quiz you will know already if you are a Housemate, a Bestmate, a Playmate or a Soulmate. This means your relationship is at a certain stage - which you may in fact be quite happy about – OR NOT! This lesson will provide you the answers...

So now you know where you are at. Are you happy with this? Is it what you expected? Do you want to know more about your Mate Type? Then take a few minutes to listen to the video I have made on each Mate Type, giving you a bit more information about what it means to be a Housemate, or a Bestmate, or a Playmate or a Soulmate.

Discovering your 'love language' is pretty exciting! My Love Language Profile has been designed to help you determine the opportunities you have to demonstrate to your partner how you like to receive love or be loved by him or her to have your need for love fulfilled. It will single out your primary ‘love language’, what it means, and how you can use it to connect with your loved one with intimacy and fulfillment.

You want to get some romance back in your marriage or relationship... but you don’t know how? Right? Well, romancing your partner is the easiest way of getting some intimacy back in your relationship. Your partner will feel loved and wanted and in return will want to keep you happy as long as you keep using his or her love language. Find out how...

A relationship is always changing; it is dynamic; it is shifting and adjusting all the time to different events that happen in your life. It is not static. It does not stay the same! With every event that happens in your life, you have an emotional reaction to it. That is normal. It's when your own and your partner's reactions are not the same that trouble looms.

When starting a conversation with your partner, it's best to explain to your partner how YOU are feeling, not what your partner (from your perspective) is doing wrong. This is an opportunity to open up a discussion, to move your relationship forward, not a time to get into a fight or blame him/her for emotional hurts.

By now you should be starting to realise that the dream of the ideal relationship has been replaced… It's time to #makeyourrelationshipwork! I Hope You Never Need To Say This To (or Hear It From) Your Partner... “I’m sorry it’s just not working out”. I've helped thousands of couples get reconnected and romance their soulmate and you'll be surprised at how easy it is when you follow the steps I've outlined.